Saturday, 22 April 2017

Electric Eighteen

Hey!
If you haven't been watching my social media or following me on Snapchat, @totally_ro, you mightn't have noticed it was my birthday on Monday. I am now 18 which feels weird to say as I have grown up to believe this is a huge milestone but it just feels like any other day. I had a lovely day, I spent the majority of it just chilling at home but in the evening I went out to dinner with some of my friends. I know this isn't the usual 18th birthday celebrations where everyone goes out to get absolutely wasted but I didn't want that, I just want to have a few friends over and talk and eat together.

I find it weird to think that I am 18, I still feel a day over 12. I can do more than ever, I can buy a lottery ticket, get married, vote, give blood, use a sunbed, make a will and change your name. I know I will probably not do some of these things for a while but it's nice to know that I can do them whenever I want.

As I am writing this post, I am wondering should I do a 'What I have learned in 18 years' but to be honest I feel like it would be similar to everyone else's, I enjoy reading them but to write my own I will wait another year or two. Right now I am confused about a lot of things, what will I do in college? Where will I go for college? What do I want to do for the rest of my life? Should I bother dating? What should I change my name to? Where do I want to travel? Am I taking care of myself?


I have thought about it for a while and I am going to share 18 things I have done in my 18 years of existence.

1. I have been to 9 countries

I have been fortunate enough to be able to do so many places and some of them multiple times, I have been to America twice, France four times, England/Wales three times, Northern Ireland, Germany, The Netherlands, Spain and Tenerife, I hope to travel more in the future especially exploring the rest of Europe and all state of America. I enjoy being able to see another culture and completely immerse myself in it.

2. I got over my fear of flying

For 3 or 4 years, I refused to go on a flight anywhere, it got to the point where my Dad told me to 'cop on, you can't stay in Ireland forever'. I remember the first time going to London and crying the whole way over and back as I was so uncomfortable on the plane. I wasn't scared of flying it was the turbulence that set me off and being in such a confined space. I am still a little anxious going on flights but now I am not in floods of tears.


3. I performed in front of 500 people 

I feel like this is an accomplishment in itself as for a lot of people, including myself it can be very hard to get in front of a group of people and do a presentation or perform.

4. I found hobbies I'm good at and love

I had so many pastimes over the years that didn't last, ballet, swimming, camoige, hip hop, trad music and scouts but even though all those failed I found some that I truly enjoy acting, reading and playing my guitar, piano and ukulele. 

5. I have a Certificate in Speech & Drama

I just have to do one more exam to become a Speech & Drama teacher, I don't know when I will do it because it is a huge amount of work and there's two exams for the next degree. I am proud that I got this far as the Cert was challenging.

6. I accepted my Dyslexia

When I first found out I was dyslexic, I didn't want to accept it or tell anyone, I was embarrassed about it for a good 4 years until I turned 13 and realised it wasn't a big deal.


7. My imagination has stayed strong

Thankfully, I still have the imagination of an eight year old. I love that I can escape into a different world or think up of weird and wonderful essay ideas for English.

8. I can drive... kinda!

I say kinda as the majority of my friends refuse to get in the car if I am at the wheel. I love that I am able to drive, I am still only a learner but I have booked my test and hopefully things will go well.

9. I created this corner of the internet

Two years ago, I created this little space and I have loved it ever since. I love that I can write sometime from the comfort of my own desk and people all around the world can read it.

10. I learned to try make something good out of a bad situation

This might sound crazy but I like crazy. It is so easy to think of the negative side of things when something goes wrong, we all do it. I have learned to make a situation better by normally joking about it. A few months ago, I did awful in a maths test, 22% to be exact, I was annoyed at first but then I realised it wasn't all bad. I didn't get an NG and it was only one test. I joke about things to make them seem less serious and meaningful.


11. I became a little bookworm

I developed a love for reading has stayed with me. Of course, I am not one of those people who can get a book read in a day but I enjoy sitting down with a good book.


12. I wrote a song about the Junior Cert and it went slightly viral

Since I uploaded this video on YouTube I can't bring myself around to watching it again. I look awful in it, I am in a local primary school at a guitar lesson and my guitar teacher was recording it. Though I won't watch it, I am proud of it I never thought it would get over 100 views never mind 3,000! This is what started my YouTube channel.

13. I volunteered

I've always done an odd bit of volunteering here and there for clubs that I was involved with but for the past two years I did volunteering for things that I wasn't involved with already. For my Bronze Gaisce, I volunteered in a local charity shop, I didn't enjoy it for much but I am glad I did it. For Silver Gaisce, I helped out my Speech and Drama teacher for the year with two of her classes. I thought I wouldn't enjoy it at all but I actually miss it dearly and I hope to do a blog post about it in the future.

14. I stayed in a different country without my family for a week

This mightn't sound huge but when I was 15, it was pretty big for me. Up until then I had stayed away from home for a few days but not in a different country. I did a French exchange when I was in 2nd year and it taught me a lot. My French improved a little but I learned a lot of other things life related.

15. I have developed a love for France, the French language and their culture

I want to live in France at some stage in my life and try to perfect my French. I do French in school and I love it but I would love to be able to speak it fluently. I love the French culture and how different it is to the Irish culture.

16. I went to a Taylor Swift concert

It's been nearly two years since my going to my first concert and I am still in awe about it. It was one of the highlights of 2015 for me by far. Even though, I haven't been listening to her music as much I still love listening to it from time to time. I hope she has a new album on the horizons.

17. I developed a love for musicals, plays and anything on stage

Since a young age I remember going to musicals, plays and pantomimes and falling in love with all that goes on behind the scenes of a production. I started preforming on stage at the age of 5 in my first ballet show, The Tales of Beatrice Potter and ever since I have enjoyed every second on stage.

18. I learned how to be independent

Being a middle child (the forgotten one), I learned quickly how to be independent and do things myself. Now I think I may be too independent as I don't always ask for help when I need it.

As you know, I never do fashion posts or show what I am wearing but I really love this outfit and I wanted to share it with you. Also, shout out to my brother for taking the pics of me in my garden, I needed someone so he did it. I know the shots aren't overly amazing but this is my first one and my brother doesn't have the best photography skills.

Top- Penneys/Primark
Jeans- Penneys/Primark
Shoes- River Island (Last Year)
Bracelet- Thomas Sabo
Necklace- Primark/Penneys

What are you proud of doing?

Thanks for being awesome,



Saturday, 15 April 2017

Study Smart Not Hard

Hey!
I don't think anyone likes studying spending hours and hours trying to get information to stick inside your brain, doing all-nighters to try to get it all done but there's no point in doing that at all. I think there is this thing installed in our brains that the more study we do the better we will do. This is not always the case because if you spend 3 hours studying but you were on your phone while doing it, you might do as well as someone who spent an hour studying with no distractions. See where I'm coming from? So here's a few things that I have learned over the past few years that help me to study smart, not hard!

Study Topics For 20 Minutes

You stop getting information after 20 minutes of a topic or you may start to drift like I do sometimes. Study a topic for 20 minutes and move on to any other subject. After 1 hour of studying I like to take a break for 20 minutes to relax, walk around, get a drink or something to eat. I find this works very well for me as I only have to focus on something for a certain time and leave it.

Have Some Sort Of A Schedule

I remember in first trying to make a timetable to study during the week but it would always fail within the first few days as I made it very unrealistic. I still make myself a schedule but it is more of a to do list, I write up everything I want to study and then as I do them I tick them off.

I love planning out what I am going to study for the week on Saturday or Sunday and it only takes 10 minutes. It prevents me procrastinating during the week or trying to figure out what I am going to study and makes sure I have studied something from each subject. I use this planner that I made myself and I find it so helpful. I write in something each day, I mightn't get them done on that day but I normally get it completed by the end of the week and if that doesn't happen, it goes into the next week.

Flashcards Are Your Friend

I find flashcards amazing to quickly summarise that hard chapter in Biology or for languages. I love using flashcards to have all the terms for a chapter or quotes. I normally keep them very plain using just blue and red pen and sometimes green.


For French, I use them to learn verbs. On one side I write the infinitive and translation and on the other side I write the present, past and future in the I, we and they form. This helps me a lot to learn verbs and be able to switch tenses easily.

Summarise Chapters

This is probably the tip I stick most to and that is chapter summaries. I get an A4 refill page and split it in half. I try to fit everything that is important in the chapter on this page from definitions to diagrams. At the end I have one page summaries that I can go back and study without having to go near the book. It saves a lot of time and effort as I know what exactly I need to learn.

Crash Course

Do you ever just not want to study and watch YouTube videos, this is the best of both worlds. It is a YouTube channel set up by the lovely vlogbrothers, Hank and John Green, it started back in 2015 and currently has nearly 700 videos. I love using for Biology and Chemistry especially when I don't know the topic very well. I find them so interesting and I don't realise that I am actually learning stuff.


I hope you find my study tips useful. What are your study tips?

Thanks for being awesome,


Saturday, 8 April 2017

Why I Think Abortion Should Be Legalised In Ireland

Hey!
I have recognised that this is a large can of worms I am opening but I feel like I should give you my opinion on this matter. I don't care if you are pro-choice or pro-life but please be aware when you are making comments or arguing with someone that has a different opinion to you. Words do hurt and it happened to me when I tweeted something and I got a nasty reply. Please be conscious of other people's feelings and try not to be nasty with each other, we need to fill this world with love not hate.

As you have probably guessed from this I am pro-choice, I believe women should be able to have the option of abortion if they need it. Personally, I probably wouldn't do it myself but I don't think it should be illegal. In Ireland, it is illegal to have an abortion and if you are convicted you can get put in jail for up to 14 years, that's more than for rape!

More Jobs

For many years now since the recession started, there has been a huge emphasis on employment and new employment opportunities coming to Ireland. If abortion was to be legalised, there would be new jobs which is never a bad thing.

11 Women A Week Go To The UK

I hate when people say 'we are saving so many lives by abortion being illegal' and that's not true at all. 11 women a week, nearly 600 women a year go over seas to the UK to have an abortion. It is daunting going to a different country because you can't get a treatment in your own country. Last August, two women used Twitter to share their experience of travelling over to England to get an abortion. As you can imagine, this is the Internet and they got huge backlash for it but I believe it highlights what women went through to get a safe abortion

For Women's Health

In 2012, Salvita Halappanavar died due to a septic miscarriage that she couldn't terminate. She would be alive today if she had the option to terminate the already stillborn baby. Shouldn't a person that is already alive matter more than someone that isn't.

Also regarding to mental health, what happens if someone becomes emotionally unstable due to a pregnancy and might take her life as she mightn't be able to take care of the child or survive the pregnancy. Why are you so worried about the unborn child that you completely forget about the carrier and let her life be destroyed.

Less Risk Involved

Unsafe abortions do happen and they aren't pretty. More times than not it can put the person in even more danger. When people are restricted they are more likely to try and get the job done by going to unsafe and unqualified 'clinics' that may cause more harm than good. If abortion was available, it would be safe and women wouldn't have to endanger themselves in the process.

There Needs To Be Options

It is like drinking tea or coffee, you can choose to drink both, one or the other and if you don't want it you don't have to have it. If you need an abortion go have one but if that is not your thing then don't, simple as. It's not a one way conveyor belt where everyone has to make the same choices, you do you and whatever that is as long as you are happy and safe go for it.

Not All Cases Are The Same

All cases are different and no one decides to have an abortion for the bants and the LOLs. It is a serious thing to think about and obviously women who want one have a very good reason if it's due to rape, incest, fetal abnormalities, financial issues, drug addiction, health issues, the list goes on.

I know this is a heavy topic but it needs to be talked about. If you want anymore information check out Repeal Chain and Strike 4 Repeal.

Thanks for being awesome,